* * Sabahah who get married one by one !! * !! * || *ایک ہی شادی کرنے والے صحابہؓ !!*

Someone asked me to name a companion who has only been married once in his life?

Companions who get married one by one !

Someone asked me to name a companion who has only been married once in his life?
 After much searching, no brainer was found. I was forced to turn to the books of the Companions. 

But even there, the process of turning the pages became longer, but the name of not a single Companion came to light, who lived a long life after the Holy Prophet (sws) and was content with one marriage.

However, the names of many of the Companions of Mustafa صلى الله عليه وسلم were mentioned, who got married for the first time and after some time were martyred in the way of God or they drank the cup of martyrdom before marriage.
 Then after a long search, “Among the Companions of Rizwanullah (peace be upon him) who lived a long life, only one person was found, whose historians have agreed to have only one wife, and he is Hazrat Abu Dharr Ghaffari (may Allah be pleased with him).  

(Name: Jundab bin Janada)

 who had no wife except Hazrat Umm Dharr until his death.

His doctrine was different from that of the majority of the Companions and was based on poverty and asceticism and abandonment of the world.
However, some historians have written about Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Masood (RA) that he did not marry any woman except. Hazrat Zainab (RA).(Beginning and end. Usad al-Ghaba fi Ma’rifat al-Sahaba)Apart from these two gentlemen, if you know the name of any other such Companion, please let me know. جزاکم اللہ .
Even today, in the Arab world, contentment with one wife is viewed with astonishment. Two or three marriages are still part of the routine there.
Probably among the Muslims of the subcontinent, the idea of ​​considering more than one wife as defective has come from Hindu culture.

In the service of one wife; This is not a joke, it is a very deep truth. 

Ibn Ibad says that I have met many people who shape people’s living conditions .So when a man died, he would write, “So-and-so died, and so-and-so was under him, that is, his wives.”

 [Matt and so on and so forth]. 

But when he wrote about the situation of a person who had only one wife, he would write that such and such a person died and there was such and such on top of him ie wife

[Matt and Turk left so-and-so].

The gist of this statement is that the society in which a wife becomes common is a society of women, not of men, both made and run.
 Ibn Sina says that he who has only one wife, grows old in his youth. She suffers from bone, back, neck and joint pain. His frustration increases, his workload decreases, his laughter fades and he becomes a hotbed of grievances and complaints, that is, he will always be seen complaining.
Qazi Abu Masood says that it is not permissible for a man who has a wife to make decisions among the people, that is, it is not right for him to be a judge [that he will always be in a state of anger and it is not permissible to make decisions in anger].
Ibn Khaldun says that when I pondered over the destruction of previous nations, I saw that they were content with one wife. Ibn Maysar says that the worship of a person whose wife is one cannot be good.
The Abbasid Caliph Mamun al-Rashid was told that there are some people in Basra who have only one wife. So Mamun al-Rashid said that they are not men. Men are the ones who have wives. And they are going against both nature and Sunnah. Ibn Yunus was asked why Jews and Christians stopped having more than one wife. 

He replied, “Because Allah Almighty wanted humiliation and tranquility to be their destiny.”

Abu Maroof Karkhi was asked what is your opinion about those who consider themselves Zahid but are convinced to have a wife. He said that he was not a Zahid but a madman. They could not reach the asceticism of Abu Bakr, Umar and Uthman and Ali.
Ibn Fayyaz was asked about people who have only one wife. So they said they were dead, just eating and drinking and breathing. Wali Karak Ibn Ishaq distributed wealth throughout the city but did not give anything to one wife. When asked the reason, he said that Allah Almighty forbade giving money to the immature [that is, they waste it].
Commenting on those who have a wife, Ibn Ata Allah said, “How can we consider those who have abandoned the Sunnah of their elders, that is, the Sunnah of the Companions, as great?” He started with two and said, “Marry two, two, three, three and four.” And gave permission to one who is in fear.
When Taqi-ud-Din Mazni became the jurist of Samarkand, he was informed that some people here are convinced of one wife. So they said are they Muslims?
Then he preached to the people of the city. Before the next moon, three thousand marriages took place and there were no virgins, divorced and widowed in the city.

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