16 main signs of Limerence in human

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16 main signs of Limerence in human

Limerence; the passion and agony of one-sided love

Lamentations refer to a mental or psychological state in which a person becomes addicted to another person to the extent of madness and keeps thinking about him day and night. The memory of that person does not find peace. Anxiety and anxiety all the time Remain. In simple words, it can also be called being addicted to a human being. As many types of addiction or addictions that can occur around the world, lamentation is the most painful and painful of them. It is never love but the victim of this condition. The person thinks it is love.

There can be many reasons behind a person’s addiction to the extent of which the most prominent reason is childhood emotional deprivation. A person who did not get full support and love from parents for some reason in childhood or in childhood Whether they have gone through an accident, (such as any kind of abuse or sexual assault, etc.) such a person can become an adult and suffer from an emotional void. They have to beg other human beings for time and attention to fill that void. Looks and this situation is certainly very painful.

Such a person is accustomed to different people over and over again in life and when he does not receive the love or attention as expected from the person in front of him, he seems to be severely broken internally. Upon repeated heartbreak, disgust with life and It starts to hate. Mood and emotions have fluctuations and fluctuations, which makes a person constantly suffer. Such a person lives in a situation of weight in a moment, a mosquito in a moment.

Maybe he is so happy right now that happiness is not being controlled. And a few minutes or a half hours later, he is wrapped in deep sadness. The happiness and sadness of such a person depends entirely on the mood and behavior of the other person, for which his own will and happiness have no importance. The condition is called Emotional Dependence.

If this is happening to you or you’ve experienced most of the symptoms below, you’re suffering from Lamarance, human addiction or Love Addiction.

1. After you message someone, you wait very anxiously for a reply.

2. Going to someone’s social media account and looking at their posts and pictures repeatedly.

3. It hurts when a person ignores a little or replies a message late.

4. I am used to thinking about this person for 24 hours.

5. Willing to go to any extent to make her happy.

6. You expect feelings from the next person like you have in your heart and get sad when they don’t.

7. Everything, everywhere, every event reminds you of that person.

8. Often, the fear of losing or being rejected by that person, resides in the mind.

9. You only think of the virtues of that person and silence yourself by explaining yourself for his flaws. You have made an outline or ideal of a complete and flawless personality in your heart and mind about that person.

10. Getting lost in imagination about that person and wanting to be with him (but doesn’t seem possible in reality).

11. When that person or his social media account or a picture is in front of your eyes, you become impatient. The heart doesn’t control. You become anxious.

12. There is always a fear in the heart about this person that he may not feel bad about what you say.

13. Make yourself look inferior in front of this person and your self-esteem becomes zero.

14. To have a desire to communicate with every person and about him in every gathering.

15. Trying to go to places where hoping to catch a glimpse of it.

16. Holding on to his old messages and reading those messages over and over again alone.

These are all the signs of lameness. Here also understand a basic difference between lameness and love so that misunderstanding will be cleared. Love is reciprocal. In it both parties care for each other. Remember each other. Be with each other. We are happy, whereas in Lamrance we do not get any response from the person in front of us because that person does not have the same feelings for us in our heart that we have for him.

People trapped in Lamrance usually suffer from a severe feeling of inferiority and A person who is addicted to them is drawn in mind an imaginary sketch of him. According to this sketch, that person seems perfect in every aspect. Every moment, a person becomes more restless by comparing himself with another person. While the fact is that in this universe nothing is perfect and complete except for Allah. So it would not be wrong if we call Lamrance a fantasy ( )Fantasy) or self-deception.

I hope by now you have become familiar with the concept of Lamrance. Those who have been victim of this condition, reading this article will feel that they have gone through all the problems and sufferings that they have faced here. Mentioned. Let me mention one more thing here that it is not necessarily that lamrance is a man from a woman or a woman from a man. It can cause a man to a man or a woman to a woman to have such emotional intuition that it is a little.

Distance makes me restless. Many boys who contact me in private messages have stopped thinking that they have such feelings about boys. Some younger boys get such attachment or insistence with older men that they consider love. They are living, although it is only a psychological problem that can be understood and come out of it. Since the person in front of him is a normal person, he does not understand this one-sided love or madness at all and such a person is a bad character. It seems to be understood to be lustful or characterless.

Although it is not necessarily that the person trapped in Lemrance desires to have any physical relationship with the person in front of him, but in most cases this desire is only to the extent of seeking attention. Anyway, this topic is very broad. Is and can’t fully describe it in an article or session. Currently we try to talk about a solution.

How to get out of lamarance?

By now, we have understood that one of the major causes of getting caught in a torture like lamrance is the feeling of inferiority, so to get out of lamrance, you have to get out of inferioration. Find the qualities in yourself and be mindful of the fact that only outward beauty, White color or tall height is not a virtue. Rather, in the eyes of the Creator of the universe, there is no value for appearance beauty. In the eyes of Allah, the Lord of Glory, the value of a man is based on how pious he is and Allah.

How useful for the creatures of. We see so many people around us that they are not particularly beautiful in appearance but every person is their fan. Because they are cooperative and facilitators. Allah created creatures. Love is put in their hearts. Therefore, change the standards of goodness and beauty you have set before today.
If you have been in this painful torture for many years, this thing must have created a certain kind of tenderness and humility in you.

You must also be very sensitive. The person who has suffered internal or emotional breakdown for many years in life, He just needs some support and encouragement, he starts to be a good and useful person and contribute positively to society. I myself have suffered from lameness and being influenced by others for a while in my thirties. The best and beautiful years of life and youth, spent in a lot of anxiety and anxiety because there was no one to guide how to get out of this problem? But now Alhamdulillah I have come out of this mirage and deceit and I want you to come too.

From today on, accept yourself on the basis of “what is and as is”. Start living for yourself. Learn to motivate and encourage yourself. If something went wrong with you as a child or you didn’t get the attention or love you deserved. Don’t punish and torture yourself anymore because you deserved it. You are now an adult and independent. You can do everything you deserve for yourself, but you must first overcome the inferiority and self-pity. Self Stop thinking you are weak and circumstantial beaten person.

You are a complete and beautiful person. God loves you. No human has the right to humiliate you or reject you. To prove you good or sensible. No need for any other human being’s approval. Rise above that emotional disability and begin a life.

As I mentioned earlier that it is not possible to fully cover this topic in one article, so to understand and know more about this topic, research it. The rooms of your mind will be opened. Also remember that Any person that came into your life, even if their arrival was painful for you, had a purpose for their presence. Nature had to impart a lesson to you that has arrived. Now move on. Stop cursing that person. If you have been wronged, learn to forgive it. It is very important for your own recovery.

Spending time with our family and our blood relations is also very helpful to get out of Lemrance. When we pass an emotional or temporary love relationship we forget even our family members although they are our greatest benefactors in this universe. In Re-connect with the

If you have made your life such that the absence of a person stops your life or you see no purpose of living, you have not yet understood the purpose of life. Allah Almighty has created someone like you. A valuable but invaluable person was not sent to this world to beg for attention or entangle himself in the deception and desire of love. Know your worth and establish a relationship with your Lord. Believe me you are far better and better than this. The human will be found.

I pray to Allah, the Almighty, to bless you all with complete physical and mental health and a life with the best of peace. Ameen

CONCLUSION:

“Limerence” is a term coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov to describe an intense, involuntary state of infatuation with another person, characterized by obsessive thoughts, emotional dependency, and an overwhelming desire for reciprocation. It often comes with emotional highs when there’s perceived reciprocation and lows when there’s not.

The conclusion about limerence, from both psychological and personal perspectives, is that it’s usually temporary and unsustainable. Limerence typically lasts between a few months to a couple of years before either transitioning into a more stable, enduring form of love or fading away entirely. Understanding limerence can help people recognize when they are in this state, providing them with better tools to navigate their emotions and make more balanced relationship choices.

It also highlights the importance of developing emotional self-awareness to avoid becoming consumed by an idealized, unrealistic version of another person.

FAQ:

What are the 4 stages of limerence?

Infatuation Stage: Initial strong attraction, fascination, and excitement about the “limerent object” (person of attraction), along with fantasies about reciprocation.

Crystallization Stage: Feelings intensify, leading to idealization of the person, frequent thoughts about them, and overanalyzing their interactions.

Deterioration Stage: Emotional turmoil grows if feelings aren’t reciprocated or obstacles emerge, leading to anxiety and self-doubt.

Resolution Stage: Either reciprocation occurs, interest fades, or time helps the person move on from these intense feelings.

Is limerence caused by anxiety?

Limerence is not directly caused by anxiety, but anxiety can both contribute to and be intensified by limerence. People prone to anxiety may be more likely to experience limerence because they overthink and idealize relationships. The highs and lows of wondering about reciprocation can, in turn, lead to more anxiety.

What is the root of limerence?

The root of limerence often lies in unmet emotional needs, attachment styles (such as anxious or avoidant), or a need for validation and connection. It can also stem from low self-worth, where the other person’s interest becomes a source of self-esteem and value.

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